Are we in control of our lives?

Maybe, when you look at this, you try make sense of what I am writing. Some of you might think that i am writing out of sense but maybe some of you can relate to what I am about to write. Everyday, Every hour, every minute and every second, we do our daily day to day activities. But do we truly understand why we are given the opportunity to do so? Haven't you wonder the reason why you are where you are? Doesn't it give you the slightest fear that we are not in control of what we will become? Do we simply just act the way live revolves around us and not us revolving around them. Are our daily activities simply just a preconceived notion of something that has already been determined by a higher authority figure of the universe? Maybe. If so, are we judge by our actions? Do our choices determines who we become? Can we become someone that others are proud of? But the underlying question is that why are given the choice to live? To breathe? To feel? Or is everything just an illusion, something that could be a dream that we can just simply be awake of one day and realize, its not our lives anymore that we are living, instead its someone else's. 

IF.....

If love is absolute, then you do not need to ask if you are in love. Otherwise you're not in love, you're simply reassuring yourself you are, but in reality you are not. 

Status

I find it really weird when random people or your friends would "re-tweet" and "like" your status even though that status has a negative connotation or that you are in pain. It's creepy. 

Partners

I really hate it when people say if asked in a relationship, "Who are you?" or "How do you see your self?" and they would reply that they are defined through their partners. I mean come on, is your self esteem that low that you have to rely the definition of your being through the existence of your partner? You should have a voice too, don't just do whatever he/she tells you to do, otherwise it is NOT a relationship, its more of a contract that you agreed on upon your relationship. 

Happy New Years!

HAPPY NEW YEARS EVERYONE

Hope you are enjoying celebrating with your loved ones wherever you are. 

Sending lots of love from the West Coast.