Partners

I really hate it when people say if asked in a relationship, "Who are you?" or "How do you see your self?" and they would reply that they are defined through their partners. I mean come on, is your self esteem that low that you have to rely the definition of your being through the existence of your partner? You should have a voice too, don't just do whatever he/she tells you to do, otherwise it is NOT a relationship, its more of a contract that you agreed on upon your relationship.